{"id":195,"date":"2020-04-23T00:21:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T04:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psyvitaliti.ca\/magazine\/?p=195"},"modified":"2026-02-21T19:12:40","modified_gmt":"2026-02-22T00:12:40","slug":"anna-discovers-the-silver-lining-using-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psyvitaliti.ca\/magazine\/anna-discovers-the-silver-lining-using-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"Anna discovers the silver lining using gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><em>Hardship needs no introduction. It\u2019s all around us and mentioned daily on every news outlet and social media platform.<\/em><\/h3>\n<h3>This series of articles is not about hardship. It\u2019s about you.<\/h3>\n<p>Our newsletter&nbsp;Weathering the Storm&nbsp;is a source of curated tips and strategies to help you weather the emotional storm. This newsletter is inspired by actual clients* and written by experienced psychologists.<\/p>\n<p>*All client names are fictional and presenting issues are composites of client experiences.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Meet Anna*<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>She recently missed celebrating her grandfather\u2019s 80th birthday and the birth of her nephew because she couldn\u2019t get the time off work. She\u2019s upset and sad about not being with her loved ones for these momentous events.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s been having a hard time feeling grateful lately\u2026and understandably so. During times of emotional hardship it\u2019s natural to focus on what we\u2019re missing, what\u2019s unpleasant and what\u2019s going badly.<\/p>\n<p>But lest we forget, the glass can be half empty and half full ; the half we choose to focus on will have a profound effect on our mood and wellbeing.<\/p>\n<p>So what if we told Anna one exercise \u2013 requiring no dumbbells or yoga mat \u2013 can help shift her attention to the half full mindset ?<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_colors_palette__{&#8220;active_palette&#8221;:0,&#8221;config&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Main Accent&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:-1},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Accent Light&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:&#8221;36c04&#8243;,&#8221;lock&#8221;:{&#8220;saturation&#8221;:1,&#8221;lightness&#8221;:1}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;palettes&#8221;:[{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Default&#8221;,&#8221;value&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;var(&#8211;tcb-skin-color-0)&#8221;},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(240, 240, 240)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl_parent_dependency&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:144,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.94,&#8221;s&#8221;:0}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;original&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(255, 204, 102)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:40,&#8221;s&#8221;:1,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.7}},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(241, 241, 241)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl_parent_dependency&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:0,&#8221;s&#8221;:0,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.94}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__  <\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Anxiety self-test<\/h3>\n<p>Feeling anxious ? Take our 7 item questionnaire to help assess your anxiety severity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"\/self-test\/anxiety\/\" style=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"\"><span style=\"\">Start Here<\/span><\/span> <\/a>  <\/p>\n<h3>Our recommendations<\/h3>\n<p>Enter the Gratefulness Exercise.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how it works : Once a day, think about or write down three things you\u2019re grateful for. The concept, although simple in theory, yields powerful results.<\/p>\n<p>Following these 3 simple guidelines will help provide optimal results when practicing the gratefulness exercise :<\/p>\n<h4>1. Choose something simple<\/h4>\n<p>No need to find life-changing things to be grateful about. It can be as simple as :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\"><span>Having a roof over your head<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"\"><span>Nice weather<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"\"><span>Streaming a great show<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>2. Choose something new<\/h4>\n<p>Try to pick something different every day. If you mention the same three things everyday, the exercise doesn\u2019t really engage your \u201cgratitude muscles\u201d. The purpose of the exercise is to make the effort to find things you\u2019re grateful for even on the worst of days.<\/p>\n<h4>3. Choose something you experienced<\/h4>\n<p>Don\u2019t mention what \u201cdid not happen\u201d. Thinking \u201cI\u2019m grateful I didn\u2019t have an accident\u201d, for example, simply reinforces negative thoughts. Instead, strive to identify things you experienced you\u2019re grateful for.<\/p>\n<p>Choosing to start (or re-start) practicing gratefulness will help the silver lining shine through\u2026 even on the cloudiest days.<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_colors_palette__{&#8220;active_palette&#8221;:0,&#8221;config&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Main Accent&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:-1},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Accent Light&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:&#8221;36c04&#8243;,&#8221;lock&#8221;:{&#8220;saturation&#8221;:1,&#8221;lightness&#8221;:1}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;palettes&#8221;:[{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Default&#8221;,&#8221;value&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;var(&#8211;tcb-skin-color-0)&#8221;},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(240, 240, 240)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl_parent_dependency&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:144,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.94,&#8221;s&#8221;:0}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;original&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;36c04&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(255, 204, 102)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:40,&#8221;s&#8221;:1,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.7}},&#8221;3a8fd&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(241, 241, 241)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl_parent_dependency&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:0,&#8221;s&#8221;:0,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.94}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__  <\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Ready to take the next step?<\/h3>\n<p>We are currently accepting new clients for online video or phone appointments.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"\/book-appointment\/\" style=\"\"> <span style=\"\"><span style=\"\">Book Now<\/span><\/span> <\/a>  <\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>About us<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>PsyVitalit\u00ef is a network of licensed psychologists, psychotherapists and therapists offering psychotherapy services throughout Canada.<\/p>\n<p>To schedule an appointment, contact us at 1-844-337-2473 ext. 0. We\u2019re available 24\/7 to answer your calls.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hardship needs no introduction. It\u2019s all around us and mentioned daily on every news outlet and social media platform. This series of articles is not about hardship. It\u2019s about you. Our newsletter&nbsp;Weathering the Storm&nbsp;is a source of curated tips and strategies to help you weather the emotional storm. This newsletter is inspired by actual clients* [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":196,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h3 class=\"\"><em>Hardship needs no introduction. It\u2019s all around us and mentioned daily on every news outlet and social media platform.<\/em><\/h3><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a981109\" class=\"\">This series of articles is not about hardship. It\u2019s about you.<\/h3><p>Our newsletter&nbsp;<i>Weathering the Storm&nbsp;<\/i>is a source of curated tips and strategies to help you weather the emotional storm. This newsletter is inspired by actual clients* and written by experienced psychologists.<\/p><p>*All client names are fictional and presenting issues are composites of client experiences.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h3 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a985f19\" class=\"\"><strong>Meet Anna*<\/strong><\/h3><p>She recently missed celebrating her grandfather\u2019s 80th birthday and the birth of her nephew because she couldn\u2019t get the time off work. She\u2019s upset and sad about not being with her loved ones for these momentous events.<\/p><p>She\u2019s been having a hard time feeling grateful lately\u2026and understandably so. During times of emotional hardship it\u2019s natural to focus on what we\u2019re missing, what\u2019s unpleasant and what\u2019s going badly.<\/p><p>But lest we forget, the glass can be half empty and half full ; the half we choose to focus on will have a profound effect on our mood and wellbeing.<\/p><p>So what if we told Anna one exercise \u2013 requiring no dumbbells or yoga mat \u2013 can help shift her attention to the half full mindset ?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_symbol thrive-shortcode thrv_symbol_171\" data-shortcode=\"thrive_symbol\" data-id=\"171\" data-selector=\".thrv_symbol_171\"><div class=\"thrive-shortcode-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_post_symbol__{\"id\":\"171\"}__CONFIG_post_symbol__<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h3 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a993c76\" class=\"\">Our recommendations<\/h3><p>Enter the Gratefulness Exercise.<\/p><p>Here\u2019s how it works : Once a day, think about or write down three things you\u2019re grateful for. The concept, although simple in theory, yields powerful results.<\/p><p>Following these 3 simple guidelines will help provide optimal results when practicing the gratefulness exercise :<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h4 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a99b065\" class=\"\">1. Choose something simple<\/h4><p>No need to find life-changing things to be grateful about. It can be as simple as :<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-styled_list\" data-icon-code=\"icon-check\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a99ea39\"><ul class=\"tcb-styled-list\"><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9a0d46\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\" data-id=\"icon-check\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M29.333 10.267c0 0.4-0.133 0.8-0.533 1.2l-14.8 14.8c-0.267 0.267-0.667 0.4-1.067 0.4s-0.933-0.133-1.2-0.533l-2.4-2.267-6.267-6.267c-0.267-0.267-0.4-0.667-0.4-1.2s0.133-0.8 0.533-1.2l2.4-2.4c0.267-0.133 0.667-0.4 1.067-0.4s0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l5.067 5.067 11.2-11.333c0.267-0.267 0.667-0.533 1.2-0.533 0.4 0 0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l2.4 2.4c0.267 0.267 0.4 0.667 0.4 1.2z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a99fd60\">Having a roof over your head<\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9a0d46\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\" data-id=\"icon-check\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M29.333 10.267c0 0.4-0.133 0.8-0.533 1.2l-14.8 14.8c-0.267 0.267-0.667 0.4-1.067 0.4s-0.933-0.133-1.2-0.533l-2.4-2.267-6.267-6.267c-0.267-0.267-0.4-0.667-0.4-1.2s0.133-0.8 0.533-1.2l2.4-2.4c0.267-0.133 0.667-0.4 1.067-0.4s0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l5.067 5.067 11.2-11.333c0.267-0.267 0.667-0.533 1.2-0.533 0.4 0 0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l2.4 2.4c0.267 0.267 0.4 0.667 0.4 1.2z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a99fd60\">Nice weather<\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9a0d46\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\" data-id=\"icon-check\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M29.333 10.267c0 0.4-0.133 0.8-0.533 1.2l-14.8 14.8c-0.267 0.267-0.667 0.4-1.067 0.4s-0.933-0.133-1.2-0.533l-2.4-2.267-6.267-6.267c-0.267-0.267-0.4-0.667-0.4-1.2s0.133-0.8 0.533-1.2l2.4-2.4c0.267-0.133 0.667-0.4 1.067-0.4s0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l5.067 5.067 11.2-11.333c0.267-0.267 0.667-0.533 1.2-0.533 0.4 0 0.8 0.133 1.2 0.533l2.4 2.4c0.267 0.267 0.4 0.667 0.4 1.2z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a99fd60\">Streaming a great show<\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h4 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9b8cae\" class=\"\">2. Choose something new<\/h4><p>Try to pick something different every day. If you mention the same three things everyday, the exercise doesn\u2019t really engage your \u201cgratitude muscles\u201d. The purpose of the exercise is to make the effort to find things you\u2019re grateful for even on the worst of days.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<h4 data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9beeae\" class=\"\">3. Choose something you experienced<\/h4><p>Don\u2019t mention what \u201cdid not happen\u201d. Thinking \u201cI\u2019m grateful I didn\u2019t have an accident\u201d, for example, simply reinforces negative thoughts. Instead, strive to identify things you experienced you\u2019re grateful for.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p>Choosing to start (or re-start) practicing gratefulness will help the silver lining shine through\u2026 even on the cloudiest days.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_symbol thrive-shortcode thrv_symbol_152\" data-shortcode=\"thrive_symbol\" data-id=\"152\" data-selector=\".thrv_symbol_152\"><div class=\"thrive-shortcode-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_post_symbol__{\"id\":\"152\"}__CONFIG_post_symbol__<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1781a9c9bd7\"><strong>About us<\/strong><\/p><p>PsyVitalit\u00ef is a network of licensed psychologists, psychotherapists and therapists offering psychotherapy services throughout Canada.<\/p><p>To schedule an appointment, contact us at 1-844-337-2473 ext. 0. 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